Thursday, December 07, 2006

A question. Trapped Relationship question.

I had been asked this question.

If...
Getting into a relationship, and probably after long distance rltnshp, or after years..
Things don't work out..
This is considered unfair...

Or..

If...
Things are seemingly good.. but just cos of the previous consideration..
That could be unfair after so long, and things don't work out..
There wasn't even an attempt of trying to get into relationship..
Is this more unfair to the current moment?!


Which do you think is more unfair?
Unfair to the current moment, that there wasn't even any attempt?
Or worrying about the future, possible 'unfairness' to happen?

Or is it the total lack of confidence or fear??
Total lack of confidence or fear of getting into a relationship..
And eventually fear that after putting in so much effort again..
The relationship won't last in the end..
Worry that no matter how much effort you prevented it from ending..
It still ended, and it's beyond your control to revive it no matter what...
Is it so scary?
Is it that the heartbreak was so painful..
That make one fear so much of going through it all again and again..?


What I can advise is..
If one is having the fear..
You can't push... Cos fear might just make one abandon every little hopes..
And flee to hiding corner..
You can only wait..
Wait for an answer?
Wait.. But be prepared that the wait might not end up endless wait..
Or even.. wait till you get a disappointing answer..
Wait..?
However time is priceless..
How much time is worthwhile spent on waiting?
It all depends on the person who's waiting....


Have you been in the similar situation?
Or is any of your friends who is stucked in this situation?

What can anyone do?
Just do what your heart tells you to do..
Never regret every moment spent on waiting..
Cos they are definitely worth it..

If you never try.. You'll never know..
At the very least.. you tried.. and you know the outcome of the wait..

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