Thursday, July 05, 2007

3 couples, and The Lovely About to Wed Couple....

Finally a time to breathe during work...

Got blank out, so just thought of what coincidence of the stories I heard from my girl friends..

One, near to 10 years relationship, said the bf's life revolved around work.
And last time when she was still in school, he still made the effort to meet up and stuffs..
Now, only when she get fed up and pissed, then he will do that...
It's a recurring pattern...
She angry, he be nice...
Then he forgets, and gets carried away by work, she feels neglected, and gets angry again..

Second case, I heard last night...
A mcp bf, so ever focused in work..
And always has work to excuse himself for not picking up her calls...
Talks to resolved these, often ended up in quarrels.
Quarrels that he will just spout hurtful things, and make her upset...
The previous time that she fell sick till wana die already... he's just not there...


Lastly, this morning... another case...
Also the guy became uncontactable, giving the same reason as the previous case..
She was like.. SOS phonecall, also can't reach him...



Hey babes...
Guys at such mature age, just have an aim..
They want to work hard, to be eligible to marry you...
They want to have enough money to have a comfortable living...
And.. that's why they have to work hard, and hit a good status, and standard of living....
Like what I saw in Leo's msn...
A successful man is someone who earns enough to let his wife to spend.
A successful woman is someone who find such a man.
hehe...

Don't worry, they sure are good family men, and good husbands...
maybe... just abit lousier at the bf department...


Edited to add this...
Shuyi said...
To girls, it's very important for the bfs to appreciate their gf's efforts...
It's okay for us to give 120%, only when you give us that 100%...
Just need to let the gfs think it's worthwhile all the efforts they put in..
It's good enough...


Qiqi, think you won't have a problem.. haha..
Xiao Chua is machan like my bro2 pattern... I feel..
Sweet and loving... always...


My brother and Clarinda...
They are my model couple.. hehe... always so sweet and loving without fail....
Me and Claire seems to able to hit off quite well....
Recent years, she's really busy...
I wished she could have more time talking and listening my troubles...
And of course, in the absence of my bro at her lappie...

The model couple...
From putting effort into collating childhood photos... since early this year...
Till going to record her singing at proper studio...
All and all the secrecy as to what the final product will be... is just getting me excited...
A team of 12 brothers and 8 sisters, and had to bor bian turn down some...
I can't believe how re4 nao4 this event is gonna be....

And I just gotten an invitation Hen Party...
Blur me... over the phone when I asked where's the place?
The reply was 'See Naked Man @ The Cannery'
Then I was like.. got this new pub call See Naked Man there meh?
Aiyo... I really don't know wah.. Really funny mistake siah...
Laffs..
Anyway, it's gonna be fun I guess... WooHoOoOOO!!!


This was the song that she recorded.
防...空洞 (Fang Kong Dong)
The song means a raid shelter or also preventing emptiness, a song title with a dual meaning that both speaks a thousand words.

Yeap... This was what she said... I felt so touching... (HK is my bro)


HK was there at the recording, I asked him afterwards whether he knew why I chose that song and he gave me the best answer that even I didn't have.

Because it was about him giving me the best...

And then I realize it is that unselfish love, the protection that wraps around me that I can be truly and comfortably myself and the quiet happiness that I will cherish for the rest of my life.
There is no synonym for love...it can only be described with feelings not with words.
What I can say is love is not a 100% "I feel like I am at the top of the world" kind of crazy happy...but more of a peaceful, understated "i found myself in you" - firm and quiet.
Your happiness, just so contagious.. spreading and influencing everyone around you two...

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