In search of what I want...

What contributes to happiness..
What contributes to living happily ever after?

Some says Love..
Can love last?

Some says feelings..
Can feelings remain unchanged forever?
Under different environment, human changed too right?

Some says Happy..
You have to be happy with someone...
But if human changed, who can be sure that you will still be happy with that changed character?



In my opinion..
It's commitment and responsibility that makes "happily-ever-after" a reality.
It's like a team work...
To work towards the common objective.
No matter how much you may change, just have to remember the initial objective.
Initial objective is 'happily-ever-after' with the other.
In whatever you do, must not be against your own conscience. That's one.
That's a simple principle as a person.
Next, which is more important than the first...
In whatever you do, you must not let your significant other down.

Responsibility. To be responsible to the one who you commit to.
Think about those, whose loved ones had some accidents, and totally don't recognise u anymore.
How can you ever say the feelings are mutual anymore?
Being with someone.. means no matter what happened...
Even if the other lost the means to survive on his/her own..
You have the responsibility to be there for the other. No matter what..
It's not easy. It's definitely not easy.

But before commitment, responsibility, teamwork and stuffs,
You have to, at the initial stage, feel willing to spend the rest of your life with that person.


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Since Friday, I was hit bad news.

Friday morning 7am..
At the junction near my place, an old granny was knocked down by bus 27.
She passed away. Aged 84 if I didn't remember wrongly.
Looking at the funeral at my diagonally opposite block.
It's just an upsetting scene.

That junction ought to improve.
They shouldn't let the green arrow to turn left to appear.
At such a junction, such a small road, pedestrains tend to jaywalk..
Even myself had been horned by cars at the junction.
The accident has warned us all about that junction...
Especially the many elders that stay in this estate.



Yesterday,
Jan told me about her colleague.
I wasn't sure if it was the wife or the hubby is the colleague.

The information of this sad story goes like this.

The wife is diagnosed with brain cancer.
She has a year left to live.
She is now pregnant with.. a son I think. 5 months pregnant.
They have a daughter, 2 year old.
Last information.
The wife is my age, 25 year old.

Life's short.
This news, disheartening.
Do what you want to do now, cos you get to live only this once.

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